What is frigidity?"Frigidity" is a word used for describing women's diminished sexual sensations. This word seems to have a deceitful meaning and probably it was invented by a man. Why?
Speaking about the frigidity some people confuse the symptom with the affection. The incapacity to respond sexually is imposed by some circumstances that deal with women's consciousness. "Orgasmic inhibition" could be a more appropriate term for describing women's inability to feel pleasure.
Which are the diverse forms of orgasmic inhibition or frigidity?
The main reason frigidity stems from is that vagina and the brain are not well connected. It is like a telephone with damaged wires. Sometimes the connection is blacked out during the conversation. In some cases the feed back is confused. In other cases the number is dialed wrong. But there are situations when the telephone doesn't even ring.
What happens if telephone doesn't ring? In this case the orgasmic inhibition is total and absolute. A woman affected by this problem has no interest for sex and sexuality. Total frigidity is a serious emotional problem and should be treated.
What does restrain a woman from having an orgasm?
A lot of things! One of them is her partner, of course. A successful sexual intercourse requires not only a hard penis and tensions in testicles. Man might understand the main principles of woman's sexual physiology for helping her reaching all sexual pleasures. Nevertheless, women and are the only who are truly responsible for their orgasms.
How does it begin?
First of all you should make a decision. That woman who can not attain orgasms might decide whether she is disposed for taking all necessary steps in order to obtain everything from sex. She might totally dedicate herself to this goal. Women's sex takes place simultaneously in 2 places: in vagina, clitoris and other close body parts and within her brain. If brain doesn't participate, there is no orgasm. Sometimes brain is blocked because of women' ideas and approach regarding sex.
How is the brain blocked? Vagina needs blood for pleasure. When brain says "NO", vagina's and clitoris' supply with blood stops.
Clitoris doesn't increase in size, vagina doesn't warm, has no more secretions, and, of course the orgasm can't be reached.
What is the solution?
It consists in 2 significant steps. Firstly you should convince your brain that sex is something great. Your brain should understand that you can be "a lady" in society and a real sex machine within your bedroom! The second step is brain's re-education. The brain of women who suffer from frigidity is programmed to stop any kind of sexual stimulation. It destroys any sexual fantasy: "Shame on you! It is so vulgar, immoral, dirty, etc!" It is not true. Sex is neither vulgar nor dirty. You should reject all cerebral iobstacles by overfilling your brain with healthy information regarding sex.
Frigidity could be treated but it requires time, efforts and patience. All women deserve to feel orgasms and sexual satisfaction. So, let's fight for pleasure and sexual stunning moments! We could do it!
posted by: Non-blondie