- I had the best sex ever but I had no orgasm
"Good sex is not about orgasm". This has been a major stumbling point for centuries and still remains beyond the common comprehension for most men. If a man wants a woman he naturally expects to cum from the intercourse. Sex without a final "shot" is simply a nonsense for a healthy man. For a woman -orgasm is a good and desirable thing but she can be just as well or even more satisfied with the process of lovemaking without reaching the big O. - It's all in the mind
How do men and women reach orgasm? Men do not need to scratch over their head to know what is wrong with their mood or what body area is most receptive at the moment. For a woman orgasm is more a result of mind and body exploration rather than a physical experience alone. Just the fact that some women can experience orgasm from hearing the sounds of "raindrops falling" can be enough to split men's brain in two. Would he admit the truth about penis being not a main character in the erotic scenario? Never. - Orgasm is a coincidence
Female orgasm, as a rule, is very hard to achieve when you set the task of reaching it. The most usual way men proceed to satisfying their women is by using a a whole range of sex techniques. While this can be all useful to some extent, orgasm may still not occur if the conditions are wrong. Again, these conditions are mainly linked to woman's mind more than her body. The slight feeling of being not appreciated(even if it's what seems to her) may ruin a two-hour foreplay and hot intercourse in a second. Actually, her orgasm may happen just suddenly when you least expect it simply because when you are relaxed and are not anxious about reaching orgasm you become more attuned to sexual response, which naturally leads to the physical outburst. - There are many of them
Start counting: disputed vaginal, wide-spread clitoral, intricate nipple, mind-blowing multiple, long-waited simultaneous while do not forget they all can be replaced by unbeaten fake orgasm! Orgasm may occur from so many stimuli - it's a question of being able to open up to individual sexual side inside you. - ...and they are all different
The debates over clitoral overpowering vaginal orgasm, G-spot being a trigger of vaginal orgasm, anal orgasm as existent or non-existent, nipple orgasm as another kind of orgasm can be endless. Just in short- women are not restricted to experience one orgasm and this gives unlimited opportunities for them to feel all the colors of"orgasm" that has so many expressions for one woman that hardly fits one small word.
posted by: Milena