It is true that reaching an orgasm during the intercourse can be very difficult for many women. However, those who were lucky enough to cum together with their partner often have some experience before they get to know the highest sexual pleasure. What's the secret and is it possible for a women to learn how to experience orgasm?
Here are some techniques that may not only increase your pleasure during the intercourse but also help you reach the big O together with your partner.
1. Right angle
Experiment with sex position to find which one contributes to higher pleasure for you. You may not know what is best for you if you have sex in missionary position only. Very often a woman may discover her orgasm once she changes the usual sex position. The thing is that in certain positions your sensitive spots, like G-spot and clitoris are stimulated better. Do not be afraid to try new positions to experience exciting sexual sensations. Doggy style, missionary position with legs raised to the shoulders, cowgirl and many others may bring you ultimate pleasure you never had before.
2. Expression
You may not be able to experience orgasm only because you unconsciously do not let yourself express your emotions openly. During orgasm you lose control over your reactions and feel the total release. If you feel awkward or embarrassed about your actions during orgasm it can seriously affect your ability to have orgasm. You should let it go and understand that all the reactions during orgasm are natural.
3. Build up the arousal
You may need a longer foreplay to become aroused and this is necessary to tell to your partner about it. The more aroused you become before the penetration, the more chances are for you to reach the peak. Ask your partner for sensual massage or talk dirty if it excites you. Guide your partner during a foreplay so that he had a more clear vision of what brings you the most pleasure.
4. Self-stimulation
If you know that you need clitoral stimulation, and during intercourse you get little of it, the only way to assure you enough stimulation is to take the responsibility for your own orgasm. Talk to your partner and ask if it is ok with him for you to stimulate yourself during the intercourse. You can use some sex toys or just your hands to speed up the climax. But it is important to feel comfortable with your partner while you stimulate yourself.
5. Sex fantasy
Brain is the biggest sexual organ and your fantasies play a big role for your orgasm. Think about things or situations that you never dared to fulfill in reality. Sex fantasies are a big part of our sexuality and give a great potential for your body to feel the earth-shaking sensations. You may share your fantasies while watching adult movies with your partner or reading books or while engaging in role-playing. Fantasizing may also enrich your sex repertoire thus making your sex life richer.